If someone asks for an exit interview or closure talk, show up for it and let them take the lead.  At the end, ask if they’ve addressed all concerns and are they complete.   Because I thought I did that once and apparently I did not.  I can be very oblivious and self centered. I don’t do it on purpose.  I never mean to hurt the ones I love. However, I recognize it’s their issue and not mine if they let me leave without being complete.