You’re creating constantly, especially when you’re complaining!  Jinn writes: “Often you complain that no one is listening to you. Nothing could be farther from the truth. The Universe is, in fact, taking in every word and responding to your every wish. So, why have all your dreams not come true? You are most likely not being clear. The Universe would like to bring you all that you ask, so you must be mindful of what you ask for. Imagine a waitress standing beside you preparing to take your order. English is not her primary language, so she catches most of what you say, but there are gaps in her understanding. You say, “I want coffee”, then start to converse with your friends. “I don’t think I’ll get the eggs, last time they were runny and the toast was burnt.” You look over at your friend and say quietly, “I’ll get the pancakes today”. You close your menus and hand them to the waitress, saying sarcastically, “No rush, we like our food cold”. So then, one hour later, the waitress brings you coffee, cold, runny eggs, and burnt toast. She smiles sweetly, knowing that she will get a big tip having followed your wishes exactly.

The Universe speaks your language, it is you who don’t always speak precisely. You spend so much time complaining about what you don’t want the Universe assumes that complaining makes you happy, so you receive things to complain about.

The more emotion you put behind it, the stronger the vibration. So, when you partake of a fine whine, ( I’M SO TIRED OF THIS, I DON’T WANT THAT ANYMORE), you are saying, “I feel strongly about this, please bring me more NOW!”

Your problem is not your weakness, but your power. Power that you inadvertently use against yourself. Then you will complain that the world is “out to get you”. The world around you is a reflection of how you feel about yourself and your life.

Keep your words and thoughts positive. Imagine that everything you say will come true immediately. For it can, and it does, not because you are a victim, but because you are more powerful than you realize. So stop abusing yourself with this power. You have successfully used it to create things to whine about. Why not use it to create what you really want? Your waiter is here and eager to serve you. ~Silas

Jinnzania’s side notes: I grew up to believe that life wasn’t fair. Money doesn’t grow on trees, but you need it, and it is the root of all evil. So most of my adult life has been spent complaining about how others have it better and I never have enough money.

One day, it hit me. Everything I had been complaining about had come true. I created it, and I must say, I did a great job. I was usually broke and dealing with a lot of injustice.

I realized that if I could create all of this crap, then I could create good things as well. So I started to focus on talking and thinking about my dreams rather than my doubts and fears. I surrounded myself with people who spoke positively about life and limited my time with those who were negative. After a while it didn’t matter who I was around, I could tune out the negative talk and not be affected by it.

My life is better, still a work in progress, but at least, these days, if I feel the need to pour a tall glass of whine, I take the time to appreciate the cheese and fruit that sits next to it.