I wrote on Facebook about a couple I know who split after 28 years and said, “We must always be on the lookout for plan B.” My smart guru galpal Bernadette Carter-King reminded me, “My opinion is we will always get what we are on the lookout for. What would happen if we stay focused on plan A? Since we create our reality, plan B will happen in spite of how plan A could have succeeded.” No one knows how to put me in my place like my pals!