Time to clear out the skeletons in your closet. No need to announce to the world all of your personal drama… instead go gently inside you and forgive yourself for any part you played in unkind roles. Roles that may have lead you to be irresponsible to yourself and others. Thank them for shaping your existence. While it may appear the heavy burdens you stuff into a closet will dissolve, it is not the case. The door can no longer close because your thoughts fed it to grow beyond what seems to be unbearable.The experiences of the past are not mistakes…. the choice to fuel them can be unhealthy. Today open the closet and turn the divine loving light on and ask for God to transmute all negative energy that no longer serves you and that does not resonate with who you truly are to Love, compassion, forgiveness. Breathe in your cleared space and fill it with beautiful creations of your now. Remember-The experiences of the past are not mistakes…. the choice to fuel them can be unhealthy. 

Anytime you feel negative emotion, stop and say:  Something is important here; otherwise, I would not be feeling this negative emotion. What is it that I want? And then simply turn your attention to what you do want.  In the moment you turn your attention to what you want, the negative attraction will stop; and in the moment the negative attraction stops, the positive attraction will begin. And—in that moment—your feeling will change from not feeling good to feeling good. That is the Process of Pivoting.
Abraham-Hicks   Excerpted from the book – Money and the Law of Attraction

I spent the last year with someone whom the legal system labelled a sex offender (not a predator, big distinction.)  Having a legal background, I familiarized myself with the law and the terms of his probation so that I, as the driver, would not inadvertently put him at risk.  First thing he did was made sure we could attend church together, it was no problem.  I awoke today to several Facebook messages asking me why sex offenders aren’t allowed to go to church, two mentioning my ex.  We’ve gone our separate ways so I don’t know what’s going on with him, but he IS allowed to go to church or choice of worship. If, however, there is a particular location that violates other terms of his probation, such as being near a school or city park, that’s a condition that might prevent his attendance. But he is allowed to go to church and worship.  He is also allowed to be around children unless, however, it is near a school or city park or location otherwise forbidden by probation.  Again that would be merely a location issue, as he is NOT forbidden to be around children. Continue reading →