Don’t you love it when friends remind you what they think they are instead of what you see?

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Don’t you love it when you have a momentary, minor misunderstanding with someone important and, although you immediately forget it, they keep bringing it up to remind you how ticked off you should be until all you can think about is what a f*ckup they are?  Yeah, me neither.  If you’ve got your ears on, boo, kindly STFU.  Trust me.  You’d rather me see you through my eyes than yours.

I need to discover a new style of communicating or discipline myself to not emotionally react each time they do it. It can be tough when it’s family. If  I am who I say I am, I’ll handle it.

Andrea

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