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Power-of-Your-Intuition
10 MAGICAL WAYS TO ATTRACT

THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

Radleigh Valentine is a best-selling Hay House co-author of five tarot decks, one angel oracle deck, and one book, all
with Doreen Virtue. He is also the author of “How to be Your Own Genie: Manifesting the Magical Life You were Born to
Live.” His very popular video show, Ask Rad!, streams on Facebook and Instagram simultaneously each week. www.
radleighvalentine.com.

Hello hopeful romantics! Yes, I know. You’ve been wait- VISUALISE HAPPINESS
ing and waiting and waiting. You’ve done the healing You’ve got the list. You know what you’re looking for. Time to
work. Everyone’s been forgiven (even yourself) and still visualise! Some people like to go through magazines and cut
your soulmate hasn’t shown up. So what’s up with that? It’s out images that represent what they’re wanting in a mate. It
not fair! Well, don’t give up yet! Here are 10 magical steps for might be that they cut out images of people that match physi-
attracting that dreamy person you’ve been looking for. cal traits they prefer. Or it might just be images that depict
ideas such as a couple having a romantic meal together or two
people hiking through nature. If you like, you can paste these
GET CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT images onto a poster. This is called a ‘vision board’. Or you
We’re working with the Law of Attraction here. What that can just place them somewhere where you can look at them
means is that the Universe (or God, Source or the Divine – on a daily basis.
whatever word you like best) will find you a mate that matches
your personal vibration. If you’re uncertain about what kind Visualisation doesn’t just happen with your eyes, though – it
of partner you want or changing your mind a lot, it’s a bit like happens in your mind. So each day imagine yourself happily in
going into a restaurant and changing your order over and over. love with the person you ordered from the Universe.
Your meal is never going to make it to the table! Time to make
some lists. Find some time for yourself. Make it romantic! LET GO OF YOUR EX
(Yes, I’m serious.) Light a few candles, turn on some romantic Hopefully you’ve already completed this step, but many
music, and dim the lights. The time has come to place your people find it difficult. If you are still energetically connected
order for the perfect romantic partner. to your ex by doing things like daydreaming of the moment
when they will call asking to come back, then it’s like a big
First you’re going to create a ‘must have’ list for your soul- can of soulmate repellant. Someone new can’t enter your life
mate. things like ’emotionally available’, ‘romantic and kind’, if the old person is still in your heart.
or ‘successfully employed’ might go on that list. Some items
will be unique to you. If you’re a very tall person, you might This is a good time to review your lists. Did you just order
even put ‘vertically gifted’ on your ‘must have’ list – hey, it’s up someone just like your ex? If so, that’s a sign that you still
your list! Don’t worry what other people would put on theirs; have work to do in letting go of the past so that your future
just be honest with yourself as you place your order. mate can manifest into your life.

Next you’ll need a ‘nice to have’ list. Frankly, the main reason MAKE ROOM FOR YOUR SOULMATE
you need one of these is so that your ‘must have’ list isn’t There was a time in my life when I was single, but had 2 cars
unrealistic. In fact, start by reviewing your ‘must have’ list. (don’t ask.) I was also looking for a new house. When it came
Are there any items on that list that really aren’t must have” time to purchase a home, I made sure there was a 3-car ga-
but are really just nice to haves? If so, move them to the ‘nice rage. Why? Because I was visualising the day when my beloved
to have’ list. The ‘nice to have’ list is often where people put would arrive and making sure there would be room for their
things like ‘brown hair’. If the perfect person showed up in car!
your life and was blonde, you really wouldn’t care, would you?
Well, maybe you would. In which case that belongs on your The same is true for your home, your bedroom, and even
‘must have’ list. (gasp!) your closet! Make physical room in your life for your
physical soulmate to be able to move in!
Finally, you need an ‘absolutely not’ list. These are what I
call ‘deal killers’. Items that might fit on that list are things
like ‘addictions’, ‘anger issues’, or .doesn’t want kids’.
Now you’re ready to place your order!

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