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ABRAHAM-HICKS So, if you are selfish enough to care about that, then you have
so much to give to your children and others. But if instead
you get sideways in your understanding of this and you hear
that you are supposed to serve others, which means you're not
tending to what your guidance is telling you, instead you're su-
...continued from page 9 perimposing what you think someone else needs or wants from
you. So you are serving them. You're staying up later than you
really want to, or that really feels good to you. And so, you are
Decide who you really are! Am I source energy, or one who giving everything that you've got. You're giving until you are
allows others to deprive them of source energy? pinched off from the replenishment, and then, even though
you're there, you're not tuned in, tapped in, turned on. You're
Imagine a village of people limping around. You are bright and not giving even anything close to the best of yourself. In your
shiny and new and strong. You wonder why they are limping, attempt to be all things to all people, or even a lot of things to
and you start limping. When you are excited about your life, some people, what happens is, you get crossways of your own
you are not noticing they are limping, and you stay strong, and guidance system.
another stops limping. Most people let their vibration be about
what they are observing. But ultimately, how you feel and how We're going to say something really bold to you. If your pri-
you want to feel dictates what you see. I can’t notice what’s mary intention is in service of others - and we're not saying
going on here, or in time, I will start limping, too. 'don't help others, don't uplift others, don't serve others' - we
are saying you must replenish yourself first or you have nothing
“We know it just sounds crazy, but you really have to adopt to serve them with. Since that replenishment factor is es-
the attitude that what the other person is doing in the sential to any advantage you offer to anyone, we want to say
relationship... is irrelevant... because if you make what they that when you put others first, it backfires 100% of the time.
are doing relevant and it upsets your vibration so that you Because when that becomes your habit, when that becomes
don’t stay true to your own desire, then - if you’re not holding your attitude, when that becomes your behaviour, when that
a stable signal - you can’t get from this person, or anyone else, becomes your practised way of living, then you begin to feel
what you want... resentful, because no-one can reflect back to you enough
appreciation to make up for what you are missing in the not al-
Most of you offer most of your vibration in response to what lowing yourself alignment with Who You Really Are. You cannot
you are observing... well, there is nothing that you observe use something that's outside of you and something that's inside
more than the other people in your life experience. It is so of you as guidance at the same time.
easy to make somebody else responsible for how you feel...
because they are right there just rubbing it in all the time, When your intention is the relationship between you and
aren’t they? you, and you get good at reviving yourself, good at finding
the subtle stages of it, good at staying tuned in before the
And so, you will do yourself a big favor when you reach the momentum takes you too far from it, then, oh then, your tim-
place that you accept that nobody is doing anything to you... ing's right, the things you say are just right, your playfulness
because nobody can offer a vibration for you... only you. And is right, everything about you is good, you are the uplifter you
we know, they influence you, they are there, and they behave were born to be.
in ways that you would like them to be different, but you just
cannot get around the fact that your vibration equals your THE JOURNEY ALONG THE WAY
resistance, and that is reason everything places out the way
that it does. The subject of creation in the minds of most of you is, "I
And you know what else? We really appreciate on your behalf will follow this process," or "I will accomplish this," or "I will
- you don’t like it that much, we know - but we really like it perform this," or "I will do this," for some outcome. And ev-
when others mess with you... We really like it when there is a erything that we're talking about, what we really want you to
stubborn person in your life who will not behave the way you understand, is that all of those outcomes, all of those things
need them to in order for you to feel good... because only a that you think are at the end of your journey, so to speak, are
person like that will free you from the madness of trying to really about inspiring you to the journey. It's the emotion that
get other people to change their ways so that you can feel you feel within it that it has all been about.
better... because it fosters a weakness in you. everybody is
running around looking for the perfect person who does not If you can hear this, then you're going to have it relative to all
even exist.” subjects: It's the emotional content, it's the feeling that you're
going for. It feels like the reason that I would be employed at
SERVING OTHERS this place is in order to accomplish this, to be the best accoun-
tant, or to be the best web designer, or to be the best photog-
Since alignment is the restorative factor of Who You Are, it re- rapher or the best actor. And, of course, all of those outcomes
stores your clarity, it restores your abundance, it restores your are wonderful. We like it when you get your job in place, we
vitality. It's restorative, it's regenerative, it's the replenishment like it when you produce money. It's a wonderful thing when
of Who You Are.
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