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ABRAHAM-HICKS The behavior of everyone that you interact with is more about
your vibration.
Let's state this more carefully.
...continued from page 9 The way everyone in your experience relates to you is more
about your vibration than it is about theirs. So, when you get
that. So what you could say to your husband, 'Oh, babe, I've
created a dream version of you. And I gotta tell you, you ain't
it yet. But I thank you with everything that I have for helping
And let's say that nine of them are despicable. Unwanted. me to clarify it. I imagine I'm doing the same thing for you. We
So, those 9 uncomfortable traits have caused you to put the have created a masterful relationship together. Just like we
opposite version in your vortex. 'Don't want that. Want that. knew we would. And it is my, from this point forward, never-
Don't want that. Want that.' And the one you want, you put ending promise to you and to myself that I'm going to queue
that there too. The one that is there, in other words. myself up with this new and improved version of us. This new
and improved version of our relationship. And I'm gonna give
So now you have 10 wonderful characteristics that he little or no attention to what's going on, and my undivided
helped you to define. So he, in his despicableness - we're attention to what we've created together,' you see.
exaggerating, and being a little rabbit-like - he helped you to
create this wonderful version of your vibrational relationship. Every relationship you have. Have you ever had the experience
So, there it is. where someone you love has made their transition? Maybe a
mate, maybe your parents. And you have this sort of empty,
So now, as you give your undivided attention to this, you unfinished feeling, because you didn't get some stuff done.
will extract all of that from right there. You will. So, 10
characteristics, and you're focused upon the 1 you really want, And, what we want you to realize is that, there's a vibrational
or the improved version of all of them. So now you're staying version of all of these relationships that you've always been
true to what you want, so you have access to energy that reaching for.
creates worlds, and are summoning to you what you want.
In other words, what you remember about your childhood…
What happens so often with people is that, instead of looking
at what they want, they look over there at what they don't Here's the clearest way to say it:
want. And when you look over at what you don't want, that's There are a lot of people who fantasize about a childhood that
how you hold what you don't want close to you. So we will not they never lived. In other words, they would describe their
say to you, and have never said, 'That by focusing upon the hometown in a way that people living there don't agree with.
positive aspects that your husband has helped you to create, Or they would describe their father in a way that other people
he will then have to go away.' We will say, 'What's holding the who knew him wouldn't agree with. And it's because you are
parts of him to you that you don't want, are your attention to all creating a vibrational version of everything. That is a bigger
them.' reality than you know. And the most disappointment that most
of you feel is when you keep looking at your reality and you're
Now, is it possible that he is a complete opposite to everything shocked to discover that it's not living up to your vibrational
you want? And your vibration is so pure to what you do want version.
that, when the vortex draws all the cooperative components.
We haven't said that here today, but that's an important And, we wanna say to you, It was never supposed to. It was the
thing to say to you. This vortex is assembling all cooperative basis from which you created your vibrational version. You're
components. the only one who ever needs to live up to your vibrational
version. In other words, let's say you're a child, and in school,
Is it possible that your existing husband will be such an and your mother never goes to any of your events. But you
uncooperative component that the vortex would not bring him create, in your vortex, someone who's really interested in what
in? Not likely, if you are focused upon all of the pieces that you you do. And so that's the way you remember your relationship
are wanting, you see. You have much more power to influence with your mother. Because, just the fact that she didn't show
than you know. And anyway, you want alignment with YOU up doesn't mean that those things weren't always happening.
more than you want him perfect in all those ways. Really. Are you getting the sense of what we're talking about?

What happens in so many relationships is you use flaws in You've created a vibrational version of everything, and then
others as your excuse to not be in alignment with who you you're mad at so many people because they don't live up to
are, which gives you a completely distorted version of who your vibrational version.
they are and of your relationship. You - not just you but all of
you - superimpose flaws and fallacies on other people in order And we just want you to hear: It's not their job to live up to
to justify discordant vibrations within yourself, that when- your vibrational version. It's your job. And when you live up to
Oh, did you hear that? That when the discordant vibration is your vibrational version, you will be amazed at how many of
no longer present within yourself, they will begin responding them join you in the vortex.
differently.
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