{"id":43570,"date":"2015-11-09T08:42:36","date_gmt":"2015-11-09T13:42:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=43570"},"modified":"2015-11-09T08:42:36","modified_gmt":"2015-11-09T13:42:36","slug":"what-they-say-what-they-mean","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/what-they-say-what-they-mean\/","title":{"rendered":"What they say, what they mean"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-reactid=\".y.1:5.1:$comment10154357289089418_10154357306004418.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2\"><span data-ft=\"{&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;K&quot;}\" data-reactid=\".y.1:5.1:$comment10154357289089418_10154357306004418.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body\"><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/pup-sleeping-winnie-the-poo-costume.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-43571\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/pup-sleeping-winnie-the-poo-costume.jpg\" alt=\"pup sleeping winnie the poo costume\" width=\"360\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/pup-sleeping-winnie-the-poo-costume.jpg 360w, https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/pup-sleeping-winnie-the-poo-costume-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a>When someone tells you they are tired of trying to be who you want them to be, they mean they are tired of trying to live up to who they told you they were in the first place. <span class=\"UFICommentBody\" data-reactid=\".y.1:5.1:$comment10154357289089418_10154357306004418.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body.0\"><span data-reactid=\".y.1:5.1:$comment10154357289089418_10154357306004418.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body.0.$end\/=1$text0\/=010\">Some people go to great lengths to keep up the pretense of being someone they think you&#8217;d prefer over who they really are. Bless the short sighted. 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Some people go to great lengths to keep up the pretense of being someone they think you&#8217;d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43570","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43570","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43570"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43570\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43572,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43570\/revisions\/43572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43570"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43570"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43570"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}