{"id":43402,"date":"2015-10-20T00:44:02","date_gmt":"2015-10-20T05:44:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=43402"},"modified":"2015-10-21T06:12:28","modified_gmt":"2015-10-21T11:12:28","slug":"tamara-when-you-understand-you-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/","title":{"rendered":"Tamara, when you understand, you change"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I watched the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion show because I have a client related to the show. On good behavior as they rehash the mean girl stuff they did all season long, I smile to watch their backtracking. My client has learned and grown from previous behavior and it shows: she makes far fewer outright bitchy digs. We all go through stuff like this but they&#8217;ve chosen to let theirs be televised. What a great teachable moment for them all when they watch it and see how they appear.<span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\"><strong><em> If only we could all be recorded every moment of our lives and play it back for our own self-realization<\/em><\/strong><\/span>. This season, Tamara found religion and on the reunion show, born again former cast member Alexis asked Tamara why she makes such a big show of finding Jesus yet continues her hateful gossipy ways. Tamara and Heather&#8217;s reactions were they did not get it. I <span data-reactid=\".9m.1:5:1:$comment10154318789789418_10154318820629418\/=10.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body.0.3\"><span data-reactid=\".9m.1:5:1:$comment10154318789789418_10154318820629418\/=10.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body.0.3.0\"><span data-reactid=\".9m.1:5:1:$comment10154318789789418_10154318820629418\/=10.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.2.$comment-body.0.3.0.$end\/=1$text0\/=010\">got it. When I begin wising up and seeing who I really was and seeing personality traits I was prone to, I made changes and my life thereafter showed it. Your daily life and your daily words show us the depth of your understanding. <span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\"><em><strong>Oh, if we could see ourselves as others see us.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Tamara, when you understand, you change&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Tamara,%20when%20you%20understand,%20you%20change&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tamara-when-you-understand-you-change\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I watched the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion show because I have a client related to the show. On good behavior as they rehash the mean girl stuff they did all season long, I smile to watch their backtracking. My client has learned and grown from previous behavior and it shows: she makes far [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43402"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43402\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43408,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43402\/revisions\/43408"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}