{"id":42400,"date":"2015-08-06T08:43:41","date_gmt":"2015-08-06T13:43:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42400"},"modified":"2015-08-06T08:59:08","modified_gmt":"2015-08-06T13:59:08","slug":"get-the-question-right-and-the-answer-flows-i-promise-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/get-the-question-right-and-the-answer-flows-i-promise-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Get the question right and the answer flows, I promise you"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"question<\/a>To attract the higher guidance, ask the higher question.
\n(1)\u00a0 NOT \u201cShould I put my father in a nursing home, or take care of him in my house?\u201d Instead ask, “What do I need to know to decide on the best living arrangements for my father?\u201d\u00a0<\/span>
\n(2)\u00a0 NOT \u201cHow might I encourage my mother-in-law to move out?\u201d Instead \u201cWhat do I need to know to get along better with my mother-in-law?\u201d
\n(3)\u00a0 NOT \u201cHow can I improve my work situation?\u201d\u00a0 <\/span>Ask more specifically, \u201cHow can I improve the flow of work between Joe and me?<\/span><\/span>\u201d<\/span>
\n(4)\u00a0 NOT \u201cWhat is behind Joe\u2019s drinking problem?\u201d Instead \u201cWhat role do I play in Joe\u2019s drinking problem?\u201d
\n(5)\u00a0 NOT \u201cWhy am I the only one doing all the work?\u201d Instead \u201cHow can I foster a spirit of cooperation concerning the work?\u201d<\/span>
\n(6)\u00a0 NOT \u201cHow can I make people listen when I\u2019m talking?\u201d Ask \u201cWhat is going on when I try to communicate, but feel others aren\u2019t listening?\u201d
\n(7)\u00a0 NOT \u201cHelp me understand why I always blow opportunities?\u201d\u00a0 Instead ask \u201cHelp me find a way to overcome my issues and have a happy, productive and loving life.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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