{"id":41292,"date":"2015-06-04T12:40:19","date_gmt":"2015-06-04T17:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=41292"},"modified":"2015-06-04T12:41:37","modified_gmt":"2015-06-04T17:41:37","slug":"it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/","title":{"rendered":"It can be scary to drop our weights when we\u2019ve grown used to the burden"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/man-carrying.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-41293\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/man-carrying.jpg\" alt=\"man carrying\" width=\"292\" height=\"446\" srcset=\"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/man-carrying.jpg 292w, https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/man-carrying-196x300.jpg 196w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 292px) 100vw, 292px\" \/><\/a>I keep getting calls about a conflict between several business partners, each with a different story, no one acting particularly conscious.\u00a0\u00a0 I wish I didn\u2019t feel compelled to jump into this with them and make everyone come clean and stop the hating and bad mouthing. It\u2019s not my job to do, And everyone is passing along stories that they don\u2019t know are true. All they know is this is what their \u201c<em>friend in the know<\/em>\u201d told them. And then everyone takes sides.\u00a0 I have been \u201cbetrayed\u201d by my share of \u201cfriends\u201d in my lifetime, and each time it happens it just serves as a springboard to even higher understanding. The closer the former friendship, the greater the karmic weight to drop, allowing your balloon to soar higher and higher.\u00a0 It gets scary when we drop our weights. When familiar people begin to fade from our life, or when friends and lovers betray us, we can tend to see it as being abandoned if we don\u2019t recognize that we were growing vibrationally apart from them for a long time, and this was a blessing in disguise. It can be scary to drop our weights when we\u2019ve grown used to the burden. There&#8217;s a difference between what grounds us and what holds us down.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED: <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=41059\"> Just because something feels familiar and comfortable doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s good for you<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=It can be scary to drop our weights when we\u2019ve grown used to the burden&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=It%20can%20be%20scary%20to%20drop%20our%20weights%20when%20we\u2019ve%20grown%20used%20to%20the%20burden&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/it-can-be-scary-to-drop-our-weights-when-weve-grown-used-to-the-burden\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I keep getting calls about a conflict between several business partners, each with a different story, no one acting particularly conscious.\u00a0\u00a0 I wish I didn\u2019t feel compelled to jump into this with them and make everyone come clean and stop the hating and bad mouthing. It\u2019s not my job to do, And everyone is passing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41292"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41296,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41292\/revisions\/41296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}