A mark of one\u2019s character is how they leave past relationships.\u00a0 \u00a0 Are they still friends with past partners, family and employers? Do they have job references? Do they have a good relationship with the other parent of their child, whether they are together or not? Never for a moment stay with someone you have outgrown, but honor them enough to have the talk right away. Don\u2019t talk to everyone but them. Blessed are the ones with the integrity to honestly speak their heart and mind so everyone leaves as friends.\u00a0 I\u2019m friends with all of mine (possibly minus 1? too soon to take score).\u00a0 Well, I\u2019m friends with all the ones who lived, let\u2019s say that.\u00a0 Some have no role model for ending a relationship honorably. They don\u2019t know what it looks like, so it\u2019s simply \u201ccause a fight and disconnect from anyone who\u2019s seen behind the curtain, demystifying the persona.\u201d As an adult, my \u201cDear John\u201d is \u201cHey, I love you pal but I don\u2019t wanna do the boy\/girl thing any more, so if we can morph into buddies, I\u2019d be cool with that.\u201d\u00a0 No lies, no hurt feelings, that\u2019s always the reason.\u00a0 The truth will set you free.\u00a0 When I began to feel trapped (difficult to phathom because these were men I deeply loved and enjoyed being with),\u00a0 I would want to be alone again, to decompress from the time we spent together.\u00a0 This is over a span of 40 years I\u2019m talking.\u00a0 I live in a quiet, peaceful and serene setting. I\u2019m glad for the shakeup and wakeup of 2012 because without the contrast I wouldn\u2019t so fall in love with my solitary life again, as I have now, and embrace my own space, my own silence with such a silly grin. Everything old is new again.\u00a0 Thank you, vibrational matching.<\/p>\n
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