{"id":40915,"date":"2013-04-20T07:44:24","date_gmt":"2013-04-20T12:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40915"},"modified":"2015-06-02T07:46:05","modified_gmt":"2015-06-02T12:46:05","slug":"when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/","title":{"rendered":"When a friend\u2019s limit of expansion reaches a new place"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A reading this morning with\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?page_id=3378\">Domino<\/a>\u00a0 mirrored something I\u2019d experienced earlier this year.\u00a0 She had a friendship with someone, which turned ugly when the limit of his expansion reached a place he\u2019d never gotten to before.\u00a0 Nothing could be the same after that, and he didn\u2019t know how to handle it.\u00a0 Now they\u2019re not speaking. There\u2019s no right or wrong, there\u2019s no higher or lower, there is no enlightened or asleep, there are only levels of understanding. When someone\u00a0gets their shakti shaken up, they will go through cycles of aftershocks that appear as personality changes, as the psyche wrestles with what its always been told and what it now knows firsthand to be true. It can take days or decades. No matter who, if it\u2019s not pleasant to be around them, get elsewhere or you\u2019re dragging everyone down. She wasn\u2019t happy with what I told her but she doesn\u2019t pay me to make her happy.\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/Phone_sessions\/index.html\">She pays me to help her connect with inner guidance and expand her perception of the world around her, and her place in that world<\/a>.\u00a0She also pays me for accurate predictions of what she can expect. She\u2019s been a quarterly client for 15 years and she knows she can trust what I say to her will come to be.\u00a0\u00a0 As hard as it is for her to cut the cord while he figures his own self out, she has to cut the cord,\u00a0 for everyone\u2019s sake.\u00a0 They can always mend it later if they want.\u00a0 I told her, \u201cDon\u2019t be so impatient.\u00a0 Don\u2019t take score so soon. Get on with your life, set some new goals, don\u2019t look back.\u00a0 You\u2019ll either talk again or not, either way, it\u2019s the right happening.\u201d We can\u2019t make people \u201cget it,\u201d especially if they think they already get it.\u00a0 I thought I knew everything at 40.\u00a0 At 60, I know I am just beginning to get it.\u00a0 People are where they are.\u00a0 If you try to adjust them too quickly, you shock their system.\u00a0 Then the two of you are no longer in vibrational resonance.\u00a0 When the two of them come back into vibrational resonance again, if they do, that is when they will reconnect. And if they never do, they will instead connect with those with whom they ARE in vibrational harmony.\u00a0 Either way, everyone wins.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=14846\">Shakti Management 101<\/a><br \/>\nRELATED:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/Phone_sessions\/index.html\">Sessions with Andrea<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=When a friend\u2019s limit of expansion reaches a new place&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=When%20a%20friend\u2019s%20limit%20of%20expansion%20reaches%20a%20new%20place&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-a-friends-limit-of-expansion-reaches-a-new-place\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A reading this morning with\u00a0Domino\u00a0 mirrored something I\u2019d experienced earlier this year.\u00a0 She had a friendship with someone, which turned ugly when the limit of his expansion reached a place he\u2019d never gotten to before.\u00a0 Nothing could be the same after that, and he didn\u2019t know how to handle it.\u00a0 Now they\u2019re not speaking. 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