{"id":40902,"date":"2013-04-18T07:36:16","date_gmt":"2013-04-18T12:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40902"},"modified":"2015-06-02T07:38:21","modified_gmt":"2015-06-02T12:38:21","slug":"until-you-know-how-you-attract-negativity-you-will-continue-to-attract-it-you-attract-it-by-your-continued-attention-to-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/until-you-know-how-you-attract-negativity-you-will-continue-to-attract-it-you-attract-it-by-your-continued-attention-to-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Until you know how you attract \u201cnegativity,\u201d you will continue to attract it. You attract it by your continued attention to it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not knowing you\u2019re in the cycle, keeps you in the cycle. \u00a0A friend wrote on Facebook: \u201cI\u2019ve removed myself this week from several very dark energies and as soon as I did, I started getting some amazing opportunities. Just a word of advice. When you surround yourself with deceitful people, their energy transfers onto you and it\u2019s like being bound in chains. It\u2019s ok to let these people go and never look back. You have to pull down the dark curtains sometimes to let God\u2019s light shine in.\u201d \u00a0I don\u2019t know her or the situation, but it\u2019s true. \u00a0The thing is, it\u2019s always a vibrational match to the energy you\u2019re putting out. This is especially tough when we don\u2019t know what we did to attract it. In truly forgiving them and moving on, in not discussing it with third parties, that\u2019s where our power and freedom lies. We value them showing us what we\u2019re ready to be free of. Bless the haters, their hate always comes back to them, and when they least expect it.\u00a0\u00a0 <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>A situation I attracted months ago is just now settling down. \u00a0It\u2019s settling down because I stopped taking third party input about it. \u00a0When I stopped that, I began dropping out of the vibe and those people and situations faded away. \u00a0That\u2019s how it works. \u00a0Anything that pushes my buttons is a signal I\u2019ve got emotional work to do. It\u2019s usually forgiveness work since I\u2019ve temporarily forgotten we are all One. My experience is the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=10926\">Hawaiian Ho\u2019oponopono Process<\/a>\u00a0works consistently.<\/p>\n<p>As a writer and life blogger, I document my daily happenings and share insights I glean along the way. It\u2019s a fine line keeping everything upbeat when there are serious issues to address. \u00a0I get a lot of reader feedback that lets me know what I\u2019m going through is what they have experienced also. \u00a0Many say reading my perspective on something helps them find closure with what they previously called \u201cnegative.\u201d \u00a0 For many, I\u2019m the first one to explain the law of attraction to them and that\u2019s always the eye opener.<\/p>\n<p>The only glitch is when they don\u2019t realize what they are doing to attract something. \u00a0That\u2019s usually when they<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/Phone_sessions\/index.html\">\u00a0call me and we figure it out<\/a>. \u00a0When we discover what their resistance is, they stop doing \u201cthat.\u201d \u00a0Then their troubles fall away because they are no longer giving it any attention.<\/p>\n<p>My own situation fell away when I got off that topic and got on with my life. \u00a0At first I\u2019d post a response to what the behind-the-scenes people told me were their \u00a0concerns. \u00a0Instead of me thinking \u2013 as in the past \u2013 that I should take it on and fix it myself, I realized that would keep me in a vibe I didn\u2019t want to be in. \u00a0If there\u2019s an emergency going on, you call 911. \u00a0You don\u2019t call and tell all your friends and ask everyone\u2019s opinions. You don\u2019t cause an uproar and then step away and pretend you didn\u2019t cause it and don\u2019t know why you\u2019re getting backlash from it.<\/p>\n<p>A situation a friend and I\u2019d publicly aired was fine between the two of us and we\u2019d gotten past it amicably. A third party with their own agenda stirred up a frenzy over his illumined response to the situation and thought he should turn it into a battle and a lawsuit. \u00a0Except he and I know the real story, so what they think is a non issue. \u00a0When they stop discussing the topic, even with each other, the resistance will drop for them as it has for me.\u00a0Until you know how you attract \u201cnegativity,\u201d you will continue to attract it. \u00a0Not knowing you\u2019re in the cycle, keeps you in the cycle. \u00a0 Stop giving it attention, stop giving it thought time and talk time. \u00a0It will be gone in no time. \u00a0I promise.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/until-you-know-how-you-attract-negativity-you-will-continue-to-attract-it-you-attract-it-by-your-continued-attention-to-it\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Until you know how you attract \u201cnegativity,\u201d you will continue to attract it. 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Just a word of advice. 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