{"id":40805,"date":"2013-04-01T20:59:14","date_gmt":"2013-04-02T01:59:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40805"},"modified":"2015-06-01T21:02:28","modified_gmt":"2015-06-02T02:02:28","slug":"how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I feel about a \u201chealer\u201d who sings of stepping stones yet denies his own?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Healing takes place when we forgive and heal everything from our past, leaving no stone unturned, no person passed over. We become healers when we have healed our own past, and made peace with all persons.\u00a0 Several FB friends\u00a0wrote and asked how I felt about<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=22935\">\u00a0<\/a>my ex\u00a0promoting himself as a healer with his song,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=23343\">singing of stepping stones yet denying his own<\/a>. I say he is entitled to tell his own story. It is none of my business if he chooses to leave unfinished business and people from his past out of it. He knows the truth. Since we met, he\u2019s never had to stand alone and do for himself.\u00a0<em>In trying to help, I disabled him, not knowing I was doing so. I have apologized.<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em>\u00a0That\u2019s someone else\u2019s lesson now. When his soul is ready, he will stand on his own and know who he is and embrace all that ever brought him to that place. \u00a0His ego will take it as a dare to man up and he will. In talking it, is when many learn to walk it. Let everyone do so at their own pace. It is not for me to judge. Nor is it for me to judge you judging me.<br \/>\n**IF YOU FIND THIS HARSH,\u00a0and forget my ex\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=22935\">agreed on Day One<\/a>\u00a0to all lessons being publicly aired, give him credit for not denying his actions and just endeavoring to do it different the next time.\u00a0 My grander lesson was that in trying to help, I disabled him, not knowing I was doing so. I don\u2019t write to tell you how special I am, I write to tell you what I find I do wrong in life and what steps I take to correct it so it doesn\u2019t happen again, to me or to anyone else who\u2019s waiting to receive that information.\u00a0 I\u2019ve moved on, but it is for me to tell the truth of my story, when asked for it.<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=23343\"><br \/>\nNever doubt you have the power to change someone\u2019s life<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=How do I feel about a \u201chealer\u201d who sings of stepping stones yet denies his own?&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=How%20do%20I%20feel%20about%20a%20\u201chealer\u201d%20who%20sings%20of%20stepping%20stones%20yet%20denies%20his%20own?&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-i-feel-about-a-healer-who-sings-of-stepping-stones-yet-denies-his-own\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Healing takes place when we forgive and heal everything from our past, leaving no stone unturned, no person passed over. We become healers when we have healed our own past, and made peace with all persons.\u00a0 Several FB friends\u00a0wrote and asked how I felt about\u00a0my ex\u00a0promoting himself as a healer with his song,\u00a0singing of stepping [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40805"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40808,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40805\/revisions\/40808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}