{"id":38534,"date":"2014-10-19T08:04:36","date_gmt":"2014-10-19T12:04:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=38534"},"modified":"2014-10-20T01:46:33","modified_gmt":"2014-10-20T05:46:33","slug":"replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/","title":{"rendered":"When I replace &#8220;you&#8221; with &#8220;I,&#8221; I see I am always talking about myself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.$author\"><a id=\"js_1y\" class=\"UFICommentActorName _5f0v\" dir=\"ltr\" tabindex=\"0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/agwonderwheel?fref=ufi\" data-hovercard=\"\/ajax\/hovercard\/hovercard.php?id=1314652633&amp;extragetparams=%7B%22hc_location%22%3A%22ufi%22%7D\" data-ft=\"{&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;;&quot;}\" data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.$author.0\">Alan Gregory Wonderwheel<\/a><\/span><span data-ft=\"{&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;K&quot;}\" data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body\"><span class=\"UFICommentBody\" data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0\"><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$0:0\">:\u00a0 &#8220;When I get too involved in the internet with &#8220;you this&#8221; and &#8220;you that&#8221; what I do is read what I have written and replace all the &#8220;you&#8221; with &#8220;I&#8221; and reread it. I&#8217;m usually reminded that I was actually talking about myself and projecting onto the other person. That is why Torei Enji Zenji says<br \/>\n&#8220;Even though someone may be a fool, <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$1:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$2:0\">we can be compassionate.<\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$3:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$4:0\">If someone turns against us, <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$5:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$6:0\">speaking ill of us and treating us bitterly, <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$7:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$8:0\">it\u2019s best to bow down:<\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$9:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$10:0\">this is the Buddha appearing to us, <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$11:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$12:0\">finding ways to free us from our own attachments\u2014 <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$13:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$14:0\">the very ones that have made us suffer <\/span><br data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$15:0\" \/><span data-reactid=\".2s.1:3:1:$comment355297097961825_359258157565719:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$16:0\">again and again and again.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=When I replace &#8220;you&#8221; with &#8220;I,&#8221; I see I am always talking about myself&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=When%20I%20replace%20&#8220;you&#8221;%20with%20&#8220;I,&#8221;%20I%20see%20I%20am%20always%20talking%20about%20myself&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/replace-you-with-i-and-see-i-am-talking-about-myself\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alan Gregory Wonderwheel:\u00a0 &#8220;When I get too involved in the internet with &#8220;you this&#8221; and &#8220;you that&#8221; what I do is read what I have written and replace all the &#8220;you&#8221; with &#8220;I&#8221; and reread it. I&#8217;m usually reminded that I was actually talking about myself and projecting onto the other person. 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