{"id":36985,"date":"2014-05-10T08:20:53","date_gmt":"2014-05-10T12:20:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36985"},"modified":"2014-05-10T22:19:47","modified_gmt":"2014-05-11T02:19:47","slug":"dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t take score too soon, give the soup time to brew"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Hanuman-open-heart.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-36987\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Hanuman-open-heart-284x300.jpg\" alt=\"Hanuman open heart\" width=\"284\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>It might be easy to say a friend doesn&#8217;t care to make amends if it involves any soul searching on their part. But that would be a limited, egoic mind&#8217;s perception of it.\u00a0 We all process things differently.\u00a0 The immediate response of someone with no emotional vocabulary will be different than someone who is used to talking everything out.\u00a0 One may feel cornered and initially respond like a trapped animal. And they ARE trapped, trapped in past programming of maybe as a kid being interrogated and in trouble, who knows. You may think you are asking a casual question. They may take it as a verbal attack. They may respond in anger.\u00a0 That is just the egomind\/personality feeling it must defend from the overshadowing of the soul. It will pass. It&#8217;s been asked an important question and it would like to know the answer itself. Give it time for thought.\u00a0 The personality wants the soul to unfold. It is just unfamiliar ground, so the first steps are shaky and uncertain. The beaten dog can bite the kindest hand. Don&#8217;t take score too soon.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t take score. Let the soul unfold itself and keep the question in motion. Give the answer time to brew and there will be joy in the sharing of it.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36990\">When they insist on holding a grudge<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Don&#8217;t take score too soon, give the soup time to brew&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Don&#8217;t%20take%20score%20too%20soon,%20give%20the%20soup%20time%20to%20brew&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/dont-take-score-too-soon-give-the-soup-time-to-brew\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It might be easy to say a friend doesn&#8217;t care to make amends if it involves any soul searching on their part. But that would be a limited, egoic mind&#8217;s perception of it.\u00a0 We all process things differently.\u00a0 The immediate response of someone with no emotional vocabulary will be different than someone who is used [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36985","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36985","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36985"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36985\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37013,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36985\/revisions\/37013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36985"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36985"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36985"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}