{"id":35545,"date":"2014-02-18T01:41:20","date_gmt":"2014-02-18T06:41:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=35545"},"modified":"2014-02-18T01:41:20","modified_gmt":"2014-02-18T06:41:20","slug":"if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/","title":{"rendered":"If I think I have a message for you, that message is for me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/mirror-girl-holding-chains-copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-35547\" alt=\"mirror girl holding chains copy\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/mirror-girl-holding-chains-copy.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"173\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;ve learned that every time I think I have a message I need to tell someone, that message is for me. You, too.\u00a0<em> Wait, I can&#8217;t say that.<\/em> If I think it&#8217;s for you, it&#8217;s for me. If you think it&#8217;s for me, it&#8217;s for you. If either of us are thinking there is a &#8220;you&#8221; and a &#8220;me&#8221; that are not one and the same, we are hilariously mistaken. Always, I ask, &#8220;<em>What is my lesson in this? If this is for me, please show me how it applies.<\/em> If I feel offended or in any way triggered, I know I have emotional work to do.\u00a0<em> Please open my eyes, guide me to that work and give me strength to accomplish that work<\/em>.&#8221; That&#8217;s a variation on the prayer I said for years, &#8220;Guide me to do your will and give me strength to bear your will.&#8221;\u00a0 The words of my prayers change as I awaken to an ever-deepening understanding of the nature of God. The deeper my understanding, the more I realize there is zero separation between any of us, and the quicker I rebound from feeling offended.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a process. It still happens. I think I have a message for someone and it turns out that message is for me.\u00a0 Thankfully I am quicker to recognize it than I used to be. Did you think this message was for you?<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=If I think I have a message for you, that message is for me&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=If%20I%20think%20I%20have%20a%20message%20for%20you,%20that%20message%20is%20for%20me&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-i-think-i-have-a-message-for-you-that-message-is-for-me\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve learned that every time I think I have a message I need to tell someone, that message is for me. You, too.\u00a0 Wait, I can&#8217;t say that. If I think it&#8217;s for you, it&#8217;s for me. If you think it&#8217;s for me, it&#8217;s for you. If either of us are thinking there is a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35545"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35567,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35545\/revisions\/35567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}