{"id":22830,"date":"2012-12-25T20:00:37","date_gmt":"2012-12-26T01:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=22830"},"modified":"2012-12-25T20:17:51","modified_gmt":"2012-12-26T01:17:51","slug":"never-say-never-and-give-it-time-plenty-of-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/never-say-never-and-give-it-time-plenty-of-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Never say never and give it time, plenty of time"},"content":{"rendered":"
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A friend I did a reading for earlier this year told me, “You were right, you said the holiday break I would find out who he was and he showed himself.\u00a0 Now I question if any was real. Never again. Thank you so I was prepared.”\u00a0 I replied to her, ” It IS real for as long as it lasts.\u00a0 The beginning is always good behavior.\u00a0 Give it a year and most show who they are.\u00a0 They are growing, too.\u00a0 Take away expectation of anyone doing what they say they’ll do, then you won’t be disappointed when they move from shiny dime to shiny dime. Few can sustain real depth, they know if they stay in one place too long they are unmasked and they can’t handle that… yet. Never say never. Go with the flow and get other things going on.”\u00a0 We all learn at our own speed. Never punish someone for not having or sustaining depth.\u00a0 Never punish them for not doing what they say they’ll do. \u00a0\u00a0 Never punish them for not continuing to love you.\u00a0 Remove all expectation, all of it.\u00a0 If it’s meant to flow, it will flow.<\/p>\n

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