{"id":17290,"date":"2011-11-12T11:28:06","date_gmt":"2011-11-12T16:28:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17290"},"modified":"2011-11-12T11:28:31","modified_gmt":"2011-11-12T16:28:31","slug":"tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Tell me outright if you have an issue with me, I still love you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re allowed to disagree with me. \u00a0You&#8217;re allowed to be angry with me. \u00a0I&#8217;m not trying to convince anyone of anything. \u00a0I&#8217;m just playing show and tell about my day and how things land on me and how I navigate life. \u00a0You don&#8217;t have to believe what I believe. \u00a0But if you have an issue with me and want to work it out, tell me exactly what it is and let&#8217;s resolve it once and for all. \u00a0A friend is angry with me for <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17263\">various<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17292\">sundry<\/a> and, besides arguing with me on Facebook, we are emailing. I can&#8217;t meet everyone&#8217;s expectations and I don&#8217;t talk with anyone who&#8217;s angry. \u00a0He asked why I did something. \u00a0I told him. \u00a0He wrote back several accusations and I asked him what specifically he was referring to. \u00a0 He would not tell me. \u00a0I don&#8217;t have time for stuff like that. \u00a0Last month I wrote <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17033\">If someone asks for an exit interview <\/a>or closure talk, show up for it and let them take the lead. \u00a0 At the end, ask if they\u2019ve addressed all concerns and are they complete. \u00a0Because I thought I did that once and apparently I did not. \u00a0 I can be very oblivious and self centered. \u00a0I don\u2019t do it on purpose. \u00a0 I never mean to hurt the ones I love. \u00a0However, I recognize it\u2019s their issue and not mine if they let me leave without being complete.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17263\">What&#8217;s it really about?<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17292\">Why you don&#8217;t see warnings on my Facebook page<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Tell me outright if you have an issue with me, I still love you&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Tell%20me%20outright%20if%20you%20have%20an%20issue%20with%20me,%20I%20still%20love%20you&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/tell-me-outright-if-you-have-an-issue-with-me-i-still-love-you\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re allowed to disagree with me. \u00a0You&#8217;re allowed to be angry with me. \u00a0I&#8217;m not trying to convince anyone of anything. \u00a0I&#8217;m just playing show and tell about my day and how things land on me and how I navigate life. \u00a0You don&#8217;t have to believe what I believe. \u00a0But if you have an issue [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17290"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17290\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17306,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17290\/revisions\/17306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}