{"id":10365,"date":"2012-07-04T22:31:05","date_gmt":"2012-07-05T02:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=10365"},"modified":"2012-07-04T22:31:05","modified_gmt":"2012-07-05T02:31:05","slug":"attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/","title":{"rendered":"Attracting a partner isn&#8217;t all about looks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve counseled with a lot of people through the years and I get to hear everyone&#8217;s story of why they think they are unable to attract a partner.\u00a0 Most of them think it has to do with their looks and they spend their time focused on that.\u00a0 I know several women who would be considered plain or even unattractive by many people, but they are always dating someone and don&#8217;t have a problem getting attention.\u00a0 After getting to know them, I realize the common thread is they are all very confident and interesting to talk to. While most women would be complaining about their looks and their life, they were talking about the lessons they&#8217;d learned in life and the exciting plans they have for the future.\u00a0 That makes all the difference in with their ability to hold someone&#8217;s interest despite their looks.<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Attracting a partner isn&#8217;t all about looks&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Attracting%20a%20partner%20isn&#8217;t%20all%20about%20looks&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/attracting-a-partner-isnt-all-about-looks\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve counseled with a lot of people through the years and I get to hear everyone&#8217;s story of why they think they are unable to attract a partner.\u00a0 Most of them think it has to do with their looks and they spend their time focused on that.\u00a0 I know several women who would be considered [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10365","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10365"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10365\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19979,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10365\/revisions\/19979"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10365"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}