{"id":46864,"date":"2018-01-27T22:38:45","date_gmt":"2018-01-28T03:38:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=46864"},"modified":"2018-02-01T23:02:25","modified_gmt":"2018-02-02T04:02:25","slug":"know-when-to-let-off-steam-and-when-to-let-it-build","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/know-when-to-let-off-steam-and-when-to-let-it-build\/","title":{"rendered":"Know when to let off steam and when to let it build"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/kettle-steaming.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-46865\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/kettle-steaming-300x246.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"246\" \/><\/a>Yesterday we signed the rental lease and what ensued the rest of the day reflected Pluto conjunct Mercury and Mercury squaring my natal moon.<em> Translation: potential hassles, obstacles, grumpiness, miscommunication.<\/em> Unlike a lot of stories I hear, I love my HOA. Maybe because it&#8217;s so easy to stay in compliance and I don&#8217;t try to buck the system. I&#8217;m all for what&#8217;s easy.\u00a0But being an Aries x5 and a landlord in an HOA (homeowners&#8217; association) community, I&#8217;ve learned the value of patience and grace under pressure. It was like being at the stove waiting for the kettle to boil. I wanted tea but didn&#8217;t want to hear the kettle whistle so I stayed quiet and listened\u00a0<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">carefully for when to open the spout. And I was a good girl at the HOA ofc, I kept my own spout closed and listened attentively. It paid off each time.<br \/>\n&#8212;AND IF YOU CAN&#8217;T BE QUIET AND PATIENT AND ATTENTIVE AND HOPEFUL, YOU CAN PRETEND TO BE. Pretend long enough and you&#8217;ll grow into being quiet and patient and attentive and hopeful in those types of situations. And it will always pay off. Then you&#8217;ll be patient and hopeful for real and everyone wins. Especially you. Know when to open the spout to let off steam and when to keep it closed for the best brew. 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Translation: potential hassles, obstacles, grumpiness, miscommunication. Unlike a lot of stories I hear, I love my HOA. Maybe because it&#8217;s so easy to stay in compliance and I don&#8217;t try to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46864"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46874,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46864\/revisions\/46874"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}