{"id":4617,"date":"2009-09-01T02:17:06","date_gmt":"2009-09-01T07:17:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=4617"},"modified":"2009-09-01T02:17:06","modified_gmt":"2009-09-01T07:17:06","slug":"my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/","title":{"rendered":"My Brother Trying To Marry Me Off?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_4656\" style=\"width: 154px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/08\/bride-and-groom-fight.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4656\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-4656\" title=\"bride-and-groom-fight\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/08\/bride-and-groom-fight.jpg\" alt=\"Not going without a fight\" width=\"144\" height=\"145\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4656\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Not going without a fight<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">My brother emailed me the other night:<\/span> <em>I&#8217;ve been thinking, I wouldn&#8217;t mind having a brother-in-law. Not trying to marry you off. I guess I&#8217;d just feel comforted that there would be someone who was your protector&#8230;<\/em> <span style=\"color: #800080;\">Then I made a post for my Facebook friends:<\/span> &#8220;<em>WTF? Now I need a protector???? I hope it&#8217;s just his pain-meds-after-hip-replacement-surgery speaking. I&#8217;m glad he&#8217;s not the boss of me anymore.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I got some great comments back:<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Becky Bolt:\u00a0 <em>Most men can&#8217;t imagine that women can be fine without them. Hee hee!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Margaret Rosche:\u00a0 <em>Oh I remember when my dad gave me that speech&#8230;before the first marriage and as I became a widow. He never got it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theattitudeofgratitudeproject.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Valerie Saurer<\/a>:\u00a0 <em>That&#8217;s sweet. But no, I don&#8217;t see you needing a protector. You have Mini-Moo and the big Moose. Not to mention your own really big mojo<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I thought Valerie hit the nail on the head &#8211; <em>my own really big mojo<\/em>.\u00a0 That was  my sentiment exactly.\u00a0 My own sense of who I am and what I am here to do is the biggest protection I can have.\u00a0 My own beliefs about my own capabilities, as well as knowing that when I keep myself in alignment, only good and progress comes out of that.<\/p>\n<p>One reason this is especially funny is that when my brother reads this blog post, he will laugh, too.\u00a0 In real life, he knows me to be completely capable.\u00a0 He&#8217;s already hearing tales back about how he acted on the morphine after his surgery, flirting with all the young nurses!\u00a0 He&#8217;s like me, we don&#8217;t take medications or drink, so the slightest dose of anything loops us right out.\u00a0  I&#8217;m sure it was just the pains meds talking.<\/p>\n<p>Now he&#8217;ll know to stay away from the keyboard then.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/technorati.com\/faves?sub=addfavbtn&amp;add=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/static.technorati.com\/pix\/fave\/tech-fav-1.png\" alt=\"Add to Technorati Favorites\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n.<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">LISTEN TO FREE SAMPLES<\/span>: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.horizonsmagazine.com\/CD_Page\/Downloads.html\" target=\"_blank\">Out of Body Experience<\/a><br \/>\nand <a href=\"http:\/\/www.horizonsmagazine.com\/CD_Page\/Downloads.html\" target=\"_blank\">Connecting with your Angels, Guide<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=My Brother Trying To Marry Me Off?&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=My%20Brother%20Trying%20To%20Marry%20Me%20Off?&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/my-brother-trying-to-marry-me-off\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My brother emailed me the other night: I&#8217;ve been thinking, I wouldn&#8217;t mind having a brother-in-law. Not trying to marry you off. I guess I&#8217;d just feel comforted that there would be someone who was your protector&#8230; Then I made a post for my Facebook friends: &#8220;WTF? Now I need a protector???? I hope it&#8217;s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4617","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4617"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4617\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}