{"id":42551,"date":"2015-08-23T00:52:26","date_gmt":"2015-08-23T05:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42551"},"modified":"2015-08-23T01:12:57","modified_gmt":"2015-08-23T06:12:57","slug":"im-happy-to-help-you-but-youve-got-to-help-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/im-happy-to-help-you-but-youve-got-to-help-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m happy to help you but you&#8217;ve got to help yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/2-kids-copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-42552\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/2-kids-copy.jpg\" alt=\"2 kids\" width=\"225\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/2-kids-copy.jpg 225w, http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/2-kids-copy-156x300.jpg 156w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>I am happy to help people figure their way out. But they have to be working on it too, taking action. Someone asked me for help. I said to report a situation then ignore it, let it go. Instead of reporting it, the story kept being told over and over to different people. Instead of reporting it, a rant was posted on Facebook changing the story I originally got, now alleging a crime, except &#8216;the evidence got deleted.&#8217;\u00a0 Do not call me unless you&#8217;re serious about wanting resolution. Don&#8217;t ask friends to do the work for you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"entry-title\">RELATED: <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42529\" rel=\"bookmark\">How much attention do you give it when someone begins hassling you? 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But they have to be working on it too, taking action. Someone asked me for help. I said to report a situation then ignore it, let it go. Instead of reporting it, the story kept being told over and over to different people. 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