{"id":42335,"date":"2015-08-02T05:18:49","date_gmt":"2015-08-02T10:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42335"},"modified":"2021-12-03T09:40:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-03T14:40:02","slug":"we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/","title":{"rendered":"We experience suffering when we think we only get one life and one body"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cicada-shell-new-one-emerging.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-42336\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cicada-shell-new-one-emerging-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"cicada shell new one emerging\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cicada-shell-new-one-emerging-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cicada-shell-new-one-emerging-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cicada-shell-new-one-emerging.jpg 432w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">How many lifetimes do we get? How many different bodies?\u00a0 We experience much suffering when we think we only get one life and one body. Sure, this body you&#8217;re in right now, that skin and those bones will die. You&#8217;ll go to sleep in that tired worn shell and awaken to find yourself emerging fresh into a new body, once again at the beginning of a life. What the caterpillar calls death, we call a butterfly. You go to sleep <span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em>there<\/em><\/span> and awaken <em><span style=\"color: #800000;\">here<\/span><\/em>.<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em><strong> We survive in consciousness after the change called death, just as we survive in consciousness after the change called sleep.<\/strong><\/em><\/span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <!--more-->Growing up as a child, I was always comforted when my mom would say we would see our loved ones again, they were just on the other side of a wall, kind of like when<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/abraham-hicks.com\">Abraham<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-42224\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up-300x175.jpg\" alt=\"butterflies flying up\" width=\"300\" height=\"175\" srcset=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up-300x175.jpg 300w, http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up.jpg 432w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>says it\u2019s as though they are in another room and soon we will be in that room as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The butterfly will emerge from the cocoon (we, emerging into the next &#8220;life&#8221;) ad infinitum. When we understand that, we don&#8217;t feel loss when a loved one cocoons, we feel a connection with them no matter what stage they are in, physical or non-physical.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>In the work I do, my experience is we exist in our consciousness<\/strong> \u2014 in our mind \u2014 which is why \u201cwe\u201d don\u2019t die when the body and brain dies. \u201cWe\u201d don\u2019t have to have a body in order to exist. Would God intervene to prevent the caterpillar from becoming a butterfly, a tadpole from becoming a frog? Would He stop an acorn from tearing apart in order to grow into an oak? The surface shell dies away, our essential self remains alert and conscious inside, ready to awaken into the next dream. What would happen if God kept the little seeds intact so the Mother oak didn\u2019t watch all her seeds split apart and crumble into mulch? We\u2019d never see the glory of another oak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>The Death Experience like a day on Facebook.<\/strong> You know how you come online to do one thing, then look up and realize you\u2019ve just played on <strong>Facebook<\/strong> for 4 hours? Or you dash into the mall for a red jacket and come out after nightfall having bought everything but?\u00a0 <em>That\u2019s because no matter what you thought you set out to do, as you became IN THE MOMENT with where you were, your attention was directed to one thing, and then another until it became a free flow of moving from one place and situation to the next and you lost time with the flow of it all.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>That\u2019s what the DEATH experience is like also. You close your eyes here and open them elsewhere. Wherever you find yourself, there will be something catching your attention, then something else, then something else. <span style=\"color: #993300;\"><em>There is no dark hole of nothingness where you\u2019re wondering WTF?<\/em><\/span><\/strong> <strong>You will be met by loved ones who have passed before. You will be comforted by familiar surroundings.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"entry-title\">RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=24384\">Her perception upon dying<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=34787\"><br \/>\n<\/a>RELATED:<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=34787\"> The end of death as we know it, What Crossing Over Was Like, As Reported By Those Who Made The Transition <\/a><br \/>\nRELATED: <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/its-comforting-to-know-we-get-more-than-one-lifetime\/\">It&#8217;s comforting to know we get more than one lifetime<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"entry-title\">RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40000\">How to forgive and find closure if the other is unwilling, absent or dead<br \/>\n<\/a>RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=37447\" rel=\"bookmark\">Get used to death. God would not stop an acorn from growing into an oak, nor a tadpole from becoming a frog<br \/>\n<\/a>RELATED: <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=39184\">Thich Nhat Hanh on death<br \/>\n<\/a>RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42219\">Rumi on Death<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=We experience suffering when we think we only get one life and one body&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=We%20experience%20suffering%20when%20we%20think%20we%20only%20get%20one%20life%20and%20one%20body&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/we-experience-suffering-when-we-think-we-only-get-one-life-and-one-body\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many lifetimes do we get? How many different bodies?\u00a0 We experience much suffering when we think we only get one life and one body. Sure, this body you&#8217;re in right now, that skin and those bones will die. You&#8217;ll go to sleep in that tired worn shell and awaken to find yourself emerging fresh [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42335","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42335","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42335"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42335\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48922,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42335\/revisions\/48922"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42335"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42335"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42335"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}