{"id":42218,"date":"2015-07-23T03:41:43","date_gmt":"2015-07-23T08:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42218"},"modified":"2016-03-09T21:24:03","modified_gmt":"2016-03-10T02:24:03","slug":"how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you prepare your family for the idea of death?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A question for you: <em>How do you prepare your family members for the idea of death so they aren&#8217;t afraid of it, and aren&#8217;t devastated and lost when it happens?<\/em> Growing up as a child, I was always comforted when my mom would say we would see our loved ones again, they were just on the other side of a wall, kind of like when <a href=\"http:\/\/abraham-hicks.com\">Abraham<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-42224\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up-300x175.jpg\" alt=\"butterflies flying up\" width=\"300\" height=\"175\" srcset=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up-300x175.jpg 300w, http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/butterflies-flying-up.jpg 432w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>says it&#8217;s as though they are in another room and soon we will be in that room as well. That made it not such a scary thing for me, knowing the separation is only temporary.\u00a0 Later in life, Mom likened it to the tadpole becoming the frog; to the caterpillar not dying, simply becoming a butterfly.\u00a0 We both agreed we believed we survive in consciousness after the change called death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"entry-title\">RELATED:\u00a0 H<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/hard-as-it-is-we-must-get-used-to-death\/\">er perception upon dying<br \/>\nHard as it is, get used to death<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/its-comforting-to-know-we-get-more-than-one-lifetime\/\">It&#8217;s comforting to know we get more than one lifetime<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/hard-as-it-is-we-must-get-used-to-death\/\"><br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40000\">How to forgive and find closure if the other is unwilling, absent or dead<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/why-pretend-loved-ones-arent-going-to-die-lets-get-over-the-fear\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">A Friend and I Talk About Dying and Easy Transitions<br \/>\nWhy pretend loved ones aren\u2019t going to die? Let\u2019s get over the fear<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/why-pretend-loved-ones-arent-going-to-die-lets-get-over-the-fear\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">RELATED: <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=39184\">Thich Nhat Hanh on death<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/why-pretend-loved-ones-arent-going-to-die-lets-get-over-the-fear\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">RELATED:\u00a0 <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=42219\">Rumi on Death<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/Andrea\/End_of_Death_As_We_Know_It.html\" target=\"_blank\">The End of Death As We Know It: What The Crossing Over Experience Was Like, As Reported By Those Who Made The Transition<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=How do you prepare your family for the idea of death?&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=How%20do%20you%20prepare%20your%20family%20for%20the%20idea%20of%20death?&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-do-you-prepare-your-family-for-the-idea-of-death\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A question for you: How do you prepare your family members for the idea of death so they aren&#8217;t afraid of it, and aren&#8217;t devastated and lost when it happens? 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