{"id":41267,"date":"2008-07-16T11:42:46","date_gmt":"2008-07-16T16:42:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=41267"},"modified":"2015-06-04T11:43:22","modified_gmt":"2015-06-04T16:43:22","slug":"i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/","title":{"rendered":"I used to have a problem saying no, then I just stopped committing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I used to have a problem saying no and then I would commit to something and cancel at the last minute and made lots of people mad at me.\u00a0 I knew I could work on my commitment issues, and do things I promised to do even though I didn&#8217;t want to, and while I resented having to face the consequence of my actions.\u00a0 Or I could just stop committing.\u00a0 Work on that issue in another lifetime.\u00a0 Let people get mad at me for being\u00a0noncommittal rather than for disappointing them.<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=I used to have a problem saying no, then I just stopped committing&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=I%20used%20to%20have%20a%20problem%20saying%20no,%20then%20I%20just%20stopped%20committing&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-used-to-have-a-problem-saying-no-then-i-just-stopped-committing\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to have a problem saying no and then I would commit to something and cancel at the last minute and made lots of people mad at me.\u00a0 I knew I could work on my commitment issues, and do things I promised to do even though I didn&#8217;t want to, and while I resented [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41267"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41267\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41268,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41267\/revisions\/41268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}