{"id":40716,"date":"2013-03-15T03:28:44","date_gmt":"2013-03-15T08:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40716"},"modified":"2015-05-31T03:29:32","modified_gmt":"2015-05-31T08:29:32","slug":"when-you-are-misunderstood-just-let-it-go-they-see-through-veiled-eyes-and-filtered-lenses-as-they-are-not-as-you-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-you-are-misunderstood-just-let-it-go-they-see-through-veiled-eyes-and-filtered-lenses-as-they-are-not-as-you-are\/","title":{"rendered":"When you are misunderstood, just let it go. They see through veiled eyes and filtered lenses: as they are, not as you are."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do you do when friends misunderstand you, when they misconstrue what you say and feel you are coming down on them, being judgmental, feeling superior and being a know it all?\u00a0\u00a0YOU LET IT GO.\u00a0<em>Y<\/em>ou don\u2019t hang on to it or try to sort it out or rehash it.\u00a0\u00a0<em>You let it go. \u00a0 You focus your attention forward on your next good thing.<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em>You remember it is not your job to fix or educate anyone. \u00a0They misunderstand because they see things as THEY are, not as YOU are. \u00a0You get yourself back into an emotionally good feeling place and move on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-you-are-misunderstood-just-let-it-go-they-see-through-veiled-eyes-and-filtered-lenses-as-they-are-not-as-you-are\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=When you are misunderstood, just let it go. 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