{"id":40000,"date":"2013-03-04T04:44:42","date_gmt":"2013-03-04T09:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=40000"},"modified":"2021-06-07T11:52:02","modified_gmt":"2021-06-07T16:52:02","slug":"how-to-forgive-and-find-closure-if-the-other-is-unwilling-absent-or-dead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/how-to-forgive-and-find-closure-if-the-other-is-unwilling-absent-or-dead\/","title":{"rendered":"How to forgive and find closure if the other is unwilling, absent or dead"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>\u00a0Domino<\/a>\u00a0still has issues with her father that bleed over into her relationships now with men (surprise!)\u00a0 She asked me how she could do <\/span>Forgiveness Work<\/a>\u00a0on him when he\u2019s been dead for many years.\u00a0 I told her it doesn\u2019t matter if someone is alive or dead, where the issue lives is in our consciousness, and we are the ones who control our perceptions there<\/span><\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 My process is this. It\u2019s pretty standard and very freeing.<\/span><\/p>\n

1 — Place a chair across from you. In your mind\u2019s eye, imagine sitting across from you<\/span><\/strong> anyone with whom you do not feel total alignment or support.<\/span><\/p>\n

2 — Imagine an infinite source of Love and healing flowing into the top of your head<\/span><\/strong> (from your Higher Self or the Creator\/God\/whatever of your understanding), and let the source of love and healing flow down inside your body, fill up the body, and overflow out your heart to heal the person in the chair before you.<\/span><\/p>\n

3 — Have a discussion with the person.\u00a0<\/span> <\/strong>Tell them anything you want them to know.\u00a0 Remember they did the best they could under the conditions at that time.\u00a0 You don\u2019t know what struggles they were going through.\u00a0 Imagine them responding to you as you would like to be responded to and understood.<\/span><\/p>\n

4 — Forgive them.\u00a0 Tell them you\u2019re sorry for your part in whatever happened<\/span><\/strong>, and ask them to forgive you.\u00a0 Thank them for their part in your life.\u00a0 Tell them you love them and mean it. \u201cI love you, I\u2019m sorry, please forgive me, I forgive you, thank you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

5 — Imagine standing up with the person before you.<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 With a hand swipe motion, cut the cords between you.\u00a0 All past issues are now dissolved.\u00a0 Imagine the person walking away as you feel love and forgiveness for them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Related:<\/span>\u00a0Hawaiian Forgiveness Ho\u2019oponopono Process\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

Hard as it is, get used to death<\/a>
\nHer perception upon dying<\/a>
\nA Friend and I Talk About Dying and Easy Transitions<\/a>
\nRemember \u201cwe\u201d survive after death of the body<\/a>
\nHow to forgive and find closure if the other is unwilling, absent or dead<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0
\nWhy pretend loved ones aren\u2019t going to die? Let\u2019s get over the fear<\/a><\/p>\n

The End of Death As We Know It: What The Crossing Over Experience Was Like, As Reported By Those Who Made The Transition<\/a><\/p>\n

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