{"id":36701,"date":"2014-04-13T10:06:23","date_gmt":"2014-04-13T14:06:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36701"},"modified":"2014-04-20T18:41:48","modified_gmt":"2014-04-20T22:41:48","slug":"when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/","title":{"rendered":"When you&#8217;re sincere, you do it privately, without the audience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/bandaid-heart.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-36735\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/bandaid-heart-150x130.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"130\" \/><\/a>The way you heal is by privately contacting the one you&#8217;ve wronged, taking responsibility and retracting untruths. No one heals by announcing loudly in public they&#8217;re ready to make amends, to people who&#8217;ve never heard the real story.\u00a0 That&#8217;s just more posturing. You&#8217;ll know when they&#8217;re ready to be sincere because they&#8217;ll stop talking about it and they&#8217;ll just do it.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED: <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36391\">The magic of making amends<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=When you&#8217;re sincere, you do it privately, without the audience&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=When%20you&#8217;re%20sincere,%20you%20do%20it%20privately,%20without%20the%20audience&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-youre-sincere-you-do-it-privately-without-the-audience\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The way you heal is by privately contacting the one you&#8217;ve wronged, taking responsibility and retracting untruths. No one heals by announcing loudly in public they&#8217;re ready to make amends, to people who&#8217;ve never heard the real story.\u00a0 That&#8217;s just more posturing. You&#8217;ll know when they&#8217;re ready to be sincere because they&#8217;ll stop talking about [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36701","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36701"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36799,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36701\/revisions\/36799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}