{"id":32764,"date":"2013-10-13T22:09:16","date_gmt":"2013-10-14T02:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=32764"},"modified":"2013-10-14T16:04:47","modified_gmt":"2013-10-14T20:04:47","slug":"if-you-cant-ignore-an-existing-reality-morph-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/if-you-cant-ignore-an-existing-reality-morph-it\/","title":{"rendered":"If you can’t ignore an existing reality, morph it"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Every day you spend on this earth is a day closer to finally living.”\u00a0A friend turned me on to the quotes of\u00a0Yasmin Mogahed<\/a>. She’s Islamic but her messages are universal. \u00a0She also says “Ignoring a Reality doesn\u2019t make it less Real. It\u2019s still going to happen. Being unprepared for something doesn\u2019t stop it from happening.” A friend brought that to my attention and asked if I agreed with it, citing her quarrelsome, buttinski mother in law. \u00a0“Me ignoring her isn’t going to make her any less of a bitch.<\/em>” \u00a0I don’t disagree with it, but my experience is that while ignoring a “reality” doesn’t make it less “real,” placing your attention elsewhere will take you out of vibrational resonance with it, thus it becomes less “real” in your experience.<\/p>\n

If I actively set out to\u00a0ignore\u00a0my mother in law, I’m placing a fair amount of energy into the ignoring of her. That introduces resistance into the equation, and resistance keeps me stuck to it. If I’m actively avoiding her, that’s a pushing-against. That’s no fun and it’s unproductive. However, if I can easily and repeatedly place my attention elsewhere with intense interest, that is the magic charm that removes her from my experience. “How can you do that when it’s your mother in law?”\u00a0<\/em>Easy, if you’re serious about wanting to remove her from your experience. Social convention aside, it’s always your choice where to place your attention. Sure, it may cause an argument with your husband and other family who want you to do otherwise. Then you have to deal with them. Make sure you’re not biting off more than you can chew. My choice would be to instead ask for guidance to see the situation with new eyes, to see a way you can flow harmoniously with whatever is happening so it is no longer an irky experience for you.<\/p>\n

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