{"id":31044,"date":"2013-07-12T20:58:59","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T00:58:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=31044"},"modified":"2013-10-23T05:28:39","modified_gmt":"2013-10-23T09:28:39","slug":"you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/","title":{"rendered":"You do everyone a dis-service when you don&#8217;t speak your mind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh, deliver me from galpals who can&#8217;t speak up! A gf just drove herself crazy for 2 weeks trying to figure out how to tell me I should really wear deodorant if I&#8217;m going to sweat like a pig and go anywhere with her. (Imagine that!) I would have <em>in the first moment I noticed it<\/em> given her a heads up! She thought it more humane to let me offend everyone else for 2 weeks while she fretted over how to tell me. I keep it natural when I&#8217;m at home so I forget the social niceties.\u00a0\u00a0What I find offensive is someone who won&#8217;t speak their mind when they have something to say. Someone who thinks a topic like this would &#8220;hurt my feelings&#8221; yet letting me be offensive to everyone else is &#8220;okay.&#8221; Why would someone think topics like this are off limits? Everyone working on their\u00a0throat chakra, please, learn to speak up and let your feelings be known.<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=You do everyone a dis-service when you don&#8217;t speak your mind&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=You%20do%20everyone%20a%20dis-service%20when%20you%20don&#8217;t%20speak%20your%20mind&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/you-do-everyone-a-dis-service-when-you-dont-speak-your-mind\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh, deliver me from galpals who can&#8217;t speak up! A gf just drove herself crazy for 2 weeks trying to figure out how to tell me I should really wear deodorant if I&#8217;m going to sweat like a pig and go anywhere with her. (Imagine that!) I would have in the first moment I noticed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31044"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31044\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33025,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31044\/revisions\/33025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}