{"id":30057,"date":"2013-06-13T19:39:01","date_gmt":"2013-06-13T23:39:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=30057"},"modified":"2016-05-19T18:15:09","modified_gmt":"2016-05-19T23:15:09","slug":"her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/","title":{"rendered":"Her effort to clear up the past gave her a clean slate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A friend asks me business advice. \u00a0She can&#8217;t get ahead financially. \u00a0Her credit is poor, she owes everybody. \u00a0She chooses to not address it. She&#8217;s been working odd jobs, off the books.<span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\u00a0 She lives looking over her shoulder. My suggestion was that <\/span><a style=\"font-size: 16px;\" href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=4217\">everything is related <\/a><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">and her financial woes in the now can be greatly alleviated by <\/span><a style=\"font-size: 16px;\" href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=27064\">making peace with the past,<\/a><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"> including doing <\/span><a style=\"font-size: 16px;\" href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=10926\">forgiveness work <\/a><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\u00a0and taking steps to become le<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">git with licensing, taxes and insurance. To contact the creditors and see what her options are.\u00a0\u00a0Financially, psychologically and emotionally: if the past is not resolved, then you can expect that when things are going very well, it can all be yanked out from under you. \u00a0<em>That\u2019s why you get it all resolved when you\u2019re down in the muck of it and have far less to lose.<!--more--> <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><em>\u00a0<\/em>That way you don\u2019t spend your life looking over your shoulder and waiting for the axe to fall when things are going well. \u00a0That way the only momentum you have to be concerned with is <em>forward<\/em> momentum. She called me today, two years after our last conversation. Two years after she unfriended me on Facebook. \u00a0<span style=\"color: #000080;\">She thanked me. She&#8217;s very in debt but making progress. \u00a0Business is good, she&#8217;s making money and everything is legal and on the books. \u00a0<\/span>She said it began happening the first year but she was angry with me because at first everything fell apart. \u00a0I&#8217;d warned her ahead of time that&#8217;s how it works. She didn&#8217;t realize to what extent. \u00a0She felt tricked. \u00a0I told her she would. \u00a0It made her angry that I was right. I told her it would. Today she was awarded joint custody of her children. I told her she would. \u00a0She knew that her having made sincere effort to clear up her past had a lot to do with the favorable outcome. \u00a0Her future is bright and she can thank herself because she&#8217;s the one who attracted it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/do-the-inner-and-outer-work-to-clear-up-the-past-so-it-doesnt-taint-your-new-beginnings\/\">RELATED: <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=31957\">Make Peace with the Past <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/prince-harming-coming-clean-about-past-lies-will-set-you-free\/\">Coming clean about past lies will set you free<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\">Her effort to clear up the past gave her a clean slate<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/the-magic-of-making-amends-with-those-you-have-unclean-energies-with\/\">The magic of making amends with those you have unclean energies with<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/the-solution-is-simple-come-clean-and-see-the-universe-rewards-you-with\/\">The solution is simple: Come clean and see what the Universe rewards you with<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/do-the-inner-and-outer-work-to-clear-up-the-past-so-it-doesnt-taint-your-new-beginnings\/\">Do the inner and outer work to clear up the past, so it doesn\u2019t taint your new beginnings<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36238\">You destroy the chance for your future by not clearing up your past<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=32761\">Come clean and see what the Universe rewards you with<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=36238\"><br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=30765\">Put only kindness in motion from this point forward<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/do-the-inner-and-outer-work-to-clear-up-the-past-so-it-doesnt-taint-your-new-beginnings\/\"><br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<p>RELATED:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/m.wikihow.com\/Be-Honest\">How To Be Honest<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Her effort to clear up the past gave her a clean slate&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Her%20effort%20to%20clear%20up%20the%20past%20gave%20her%20a%20clean%20slate&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/her-effort-to-clear-up-the-past-gave-her-a-clean-slate\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A friend asks me business advice. \u00a0She can&#8217;t get ahead financially. \u00a0Her credit is poor, she owes everybody. \u00a0She chooses to not address it. She&#8217;s been working odd jobs, off the books.\u00a0 She lives looking over her shoulder. 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