{"id":24588,"date":"2013-02-11T04:26:18","date_gmt":"2013-02-11T09:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=24588"},"modified":"2013-02-11T04:28:11","modified_gmt":"2013-02-11T09:28:11","slug":"when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/","title":{"rendered":"When someone wants to keep you a secret, that&#8217;s because they&#8217;re juggling several that don&#8217;t know about each other"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_24590\" style=\"width: 122px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=24590\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-24590\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-24590\" class=\"size-full wp-image-24590\" title=\"juggling\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/juggling.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"112\" height=\"158\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-24590\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Juggling too many at once<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The theme this week in readings seems to be both men and women who resent that their lover or partner wants to keep them a secret from friends, from family and on Facebook. I read for about a thousand people a year.\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=3399\">I hear everyone&#8217;s stories.\u00a0 I see the patterns.<\/a>\u00a0 If they want to keep you a secret, that is because they are juggling you with someone else or a few, and none of you know about the others. I know it because hundreds tell me they do it. What they don&#8217;t count on is the underground network of Facebook and real life friends who also contact each other behind the scenes and discover they&#8217;re all being lied to for different benefits.\u00a0 2013 is the year for no more secrets, no more lies.\u00a0 When you stop putting up with it, you will stop attracting it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=24017\">Profile of the Sociopath<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=3399\">How one clairvoyant sees the world<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=When someone wants to keep you a secret, that&#8217;s because they&#8217;re juggling several that don&#8217;t know about each other&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=When%20someone%20wants%20to%20keep%20you%20a%20secret,%20that&#8217;s%20because%20they&#8217;re%20juggling%20several%20that%20don&#8217;t%20know%20about%20each%20other&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/when-someone-wants-to-keep-you-a-secret-on-facebook-thats-because-theyre-juggling-several-that-dont-know-about-each-other\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The theme this week in readings seems to be both men and women who resent that their lover or partner wants to keep them a secret from friends, from family and on Facebook. I read for about a thousand people a year.\u00a0 I hear everyone&#8217;s stories.\u00a0 I see the patterns.\u00a0 If they want to keep [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24588","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24588","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24588"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24588\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24599,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24588\/revisions\/24599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24588"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24588"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24588"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}