{"id":24142,"date":"2013-02-05T02:09:55","date_gmt":"2013-02-05T07:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=24142"},"modified":"2014-12-10T14:25:20","modified_gmt":"2014-12-10T19:25:20","slug":"facebook-friending-unfriending-judging-forgiving-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/facebook-friending-unfriending-judging-forgiving-loving\/","title":{"rendered":"Facebook, Friending, Unfriending, Judging, Forgiving, Loving"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last month, Facebook friend Rosie Neal saw posts on a friend’s Wall she thought I should be aware of. \u00a0Though trying to be helpful, I felt it was deceitful to the mutual friend for her to\u00a0send me her login and password info. I’d been blocked from the friend’s wall for a few weeks while we were having a disagreement<\/a>.\u00a0 Rosie wanted me to see his behavior for myself, encouraging me to disengage from him once and for all. It was none of my business. Even though she was trying to be helpful, a few messages later I had to be free of\u00a0 her energy for awhile so I unfriended her.<\/p>\n

Last week I wrote about more behind the scenes messages<\/a>. \u00a0I do not know if she reads my blog. \u00a0\u00a0I daily do the\u00a0Ho\u2019oponopono Hawaiian forgiveness\/healing process<\/a>\u00a0on every person I feel disharmony with. \u00a0Knowing she is a friend of my friend, I began actively adding her to the daily healing prayers. \u00a0This morning I felt guided to go to her page and send her a message letting her know I had no hard feelings, and why I’d unfriended her. \u00a0I found she had me blocked. She has her own reasons. The purpose of this post is to let her know I have no hard feelings. \u00a0I had to work through my own issues of judgment. \u00a0My issues have to do with me and no one else. \u00a0I work them out within me. \u00a0I don’t vibe with schoolgirl drama. When I get messages like that, I move on to happier things with a forward focus. If you’d like back in, simply friend request me and we never have to talk about it again. \u00a0I ask your forgiveness and I forgive you. The past is the past. I have no complaints whatsoever. You have been nothing but kind to me.\u00a0 I will have a friend send a message to you as well.\u00a0 Here’s to everyone’s happy future.
\nAndrea<\/p>\n

Afternote:\u00a0 She got ticked I outed her for contacting me with login info to spy. She told my friend to cut all contact with me or she wouldn’t get him on Oprah and make him famous.\u00a0 Ya gotta laugh. Don’t try to pull me into deception and then get ticked when I call you on it.\u00a0 That’s not who you want to be.<\/p>\n

Here’s what she commented on my FB wall on\u00a0Friday, December 28, 2012 at 7:04pm via mobile: Rosie: “Well I am literally falling through the chair. I am so shocked to find out that Jeremy James Bonner was your Joy Boy. I thought Jeremy was a friend to you and your boyfriend and you are offering him guidance or helping him out or something like that. I thought you were all like friends. I am so shocked my mind can’t even conceive that he would have done something like this. I felt he was such a sweet young man that I was even looking for a girlfriend to hook him up with. I think any good person or woman could get sucked into something like this. Because I gotta tell you he came across squeaky clean and quite sweet. I am so sorry Andrea, that you had to go through this and I’m even more sadden and sorry that it was Jeremy that created this situation. You may not see the benefit of it today but I grant you at some point in the future you will have great appreciation that this whole thing fell apart. Sending loving blessings your way. You so deserve so much better than this.”<\/p>\n

Note: \u00a0JoyBoy was the name I came up for Jeremy since he can bring much joy to a situation. \u00a0He liked the name and was pleased to be called that.<\/p>\n

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