{"id":1905,"date":"2009-02-20T20:57:05","date_gmt":"2009-02-21T01:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=1905"},"modified":"2009-02-20T20:57:05","modified_gmt":"2009-02-21T01:57:05","slug":"i-get-to-be-a-good-sam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/","title":{"rendered":"I get to be a Good Sam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Friday, February 20, 2009. <\/em> Today was a really busy day.\u00a0 The March Horizons was delivered and <em>Beth, Melanie, Julie <\/em>and <em>Gerald<\/em> and I all pitched in and got it done and to the post office by noon. I was out of the post office by 1:40pm.\u00a0 I decided to stop at Publix on the way home and was driving by one I&#8217;ve only been in twice.\u00a0 Then a series of synchronistic events began to unfold.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>First, since I was unfamiliar with the store layout, I was wandering around looking to get my bearings when a helpful clerk pointed me in the right direction.\u00a0 Then I ended up spending a lot longer in the store than it should have taken, only because i had to hunt for the right aisles for my items.\u00a0 Periodically I&#8217;d pass the same woman in a red jacket and I&#8217;d joke with her, &#8220;are you following me?&#8221;\u00a0 We&#8217;d laugh and I&#8217;d continue my hunt for hidden goods.<\/p>\n<p>So, synchronistically I ended up right behind her at the check out counter.\u00a0 And we joked &#8220;you again?&#8221; and chatted about the tabloid headlines.\u00a0 Then she joked &#8220;I might have gotten too much to carry today.&#8221; The bagger said he&#8217;d help her out to her car, and she said she was walking.\u00a0 I asked where she had to carry them to and she replied, &#8220;to Wickham Road&#8221;.\u00a0 We were on 192.\u00a0 I said &#8220;that&#8217;s a long walk with 4 bags of groceries.&#8221;\u00a0 She just laughed and replied in her Jamaican accent, &#8220;Oh, you do what you&#8217;ve got to do&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/3-09-self-love-salin-cover.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1909\" title=\"3-09-self-love-salin-cover\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/3-09-self-love-salin-cover.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"101\" height=\"128\" \/><\/a>I thought, &#8220;that&#8217;s a great attitude to have.&#8221;\u00a0 She was my age or a little older.\u00a0 She was fairly heavy. Her car was in the shop, she said.\u00a0 I told her I&#8217;d be glad to give her a ride.\u00a0 She accepted and we made our way out to the car. Since I&#8217;d just done the mailing, my little <em>Toyota Prius<\/em> was filled to the brim with magazines, mailing sacks, post office bins and cases of canned cat food I&#8217;d just picked up at <em>PetSmart<\/em>.\u00a0 It took a moment to rearrange everything but we made room and were on our way. The car was full of magazines with the cover to the left on them.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t think until later how freakish it might have appeared \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/saibaba-blessing.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1918\" title=\"saibaba-blessing\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/saibaba-blessing.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"69\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a>Now the dashboard of my car is also a makeshift altar.\u00a0 I have a dashmat onto which I have velcroed several holy cards of Jesus and Blessed Mother and I have a small photo of Sai Baba there, as well as two sets of prayer malas\/beads.\u00a0 Almost immediately she asked what church I went to and I braced myself *smile* I told her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unityofmelbourne.com\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Unity Church of Melbourne.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>She told me she was born and raised a <em>Seven Day Adventist<\/em> and I remarked that was a very disciplined tradition, and we talked about the value of having a disciplined upbringing.\u00a0 We had similar views on what kids should know by the time they graduate, and how they could be taught a little more respect.\u00a0\u00a0 It was a good conversation.\u00a0 No one tried to convert anyone else.\u00a0 We talked about the views we had in common.<\/p>\n<p>We talked about synchronicity and how Spirit puts people together for a time, for a reason.\u00a0 We talked about me deciding to go into the unfamiliar store, and taking so much time as I looked for my items, and ending up right behind her and offering her a ride.\u00a0 It was a fun break to my day.\u00a0 It was an unexpected encounter that lightened up the end of a stressful week.\u00a0 It was a real blessing to me.<\/p>\n<p>She lived 4 miles from Publix.\u00a0 She was going to walk 4 miles home with 4 big bags of groceries. I didn&#8217;t think until later, why wasn&#8217;t she shopping at Walmart less than a mile away from her home?\u00a0 We were clearly supposed to have that encounter.<\/p>\n<p>Cool beans.<\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=I get to be a Good Sam&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=I%20get%20to%20be%20a%20Good%20Sam&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/i-get-to-be-a-good-sam\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friday, February 20, 2009. Today was a really busy day.\u00a0 The March Horizons was delivered and Beth, Melanie, Julie and Gerald and I all pitched in and got it done and to the post office by noon. I was out of the post office by 1:40pm.\u00a0 I decided to stop at Publix on the way [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}