{"id":17208,"date":"2011-11-06T12:58:05","date_gmt":"2011-11-06T17:58:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=17208"},"modified":"2011-11-06T12:58:05","modified_gmt":"2011-11-06T17:58:05","slug":"a-friends-girlfriend-has-blocked-me-on-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/a-friends-girlfriend-has-blocked-me-on-facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"A friend’s girlfriend has blocked me on Facebook"},"content":{"rendered":"

I wrote earlier about how\u00a0instead of blocking someone, let me overcome my desire to block them<\/a>. \u00a0 A good friend, a platonic spiritual brother, has a non-local girlfriend who \u00a0friended me on Facebook this year. \u00a0Shortly after I wrote My two cents about working toward being together<\/a>, she blocked me. \u00a0 In essence, I said (relative to her) “If the two of you have made an agreement about when to be together, work toward it. \u00a0 Whoever is not working toward it has a different agenda. ” \u00a0Am I irked that she blocked me? \u00a0 Obviously since I’m writing this. \u00a0And yes, it’s none of my business, no matter how much I want to protect a pal. \u00a0But is my ego disappointed that she won’t see the sometimes snarky comments I make on her man’s wall? \u00a0Or am I just insensitive that, for whatever reason, her seeing my name and my comments do not give her a good feeling and she doesn’t want to deal with it right now? \u00a0That’s when I block someone, so why not her, too? <\/em>And me, <\/em>a<\/em>re my snarky comments more designed to encourage her to come join \u00a0her beloved? \u00a0Or to make her feel insecure by being openly flirtatious about him? \u00a0Forget her agenda, what’s my agenda? <\/em> I either want for my friends what they want for themselves, or I don’t. \u00a0 Boy, have I got some work to do on myself.<\/a> In the meantime, let me see if I can just shut up now.<\/p>\n

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