{"id":15501,"date":"2011-06-15T16:30:00","date_gmt":"2011-06-15T20:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=15501"},"modified":"2011-06-15T22:45:05","modified_gmt":"2011-06-16T02:45:05","slug":"15501","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t you love it when friends remind you what they think they are instead of what you see?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_15508\" style=\"width: 110px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-15508\" href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=15508\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15508\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15508\" title=\"joe bfstplk\" src=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/joe-bfstplk.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"102\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-15508\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hapless Joe Bfstplk<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you love it when you have a momentary, minor misunderstanding with someone important and, although you immediately forget it, they keep bringing it up to remind you how ticked off you should be until all you can think about is what a f*ckup they are? \u00a0Yeah, me neither. \u00a0If you&#8217;ve got your ears on, boo, kindly STFU. \u00a0Trust me. \u00a0You&#8217;d rather me see you through my eyes<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Joe_Btfsplk\" target=\"_blank\"> than yours<\/a>.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I need to discover a new style of communicating or discipline myself to not emotionally react each time they do it. It can be tough when it&#8217;s family. If \u00a0I am who I say I am, I&#8217;ll handle it.<\/p>\n<p>Andrea<\/p>\n<p>RELATED: \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/?p=1704\" target=\"_blank\">How were you programmed as a child?<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Don&#8217;t you love it when friends remind you what they think they are instead of what you see?&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Don&#8217;t%20you%20love%20it%20when%20friends%20remind%20you%20what%20they%20think%20they%20are%20instead%20of%20what%20you%20see?&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/15501\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t you love it when you have a momentary, minor misunderstanding with someone important and, although you immediately forget it, they keep bringing it up to remind you how ticked off you should be until all you can think about is what a f*ckup they are? \u00a0Yeah, me neither. \u00a0If you&#8217;ve got your ears on, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15501","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15501","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15501"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15501\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15509,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15501\/revisions\/15509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/horizonsmagazine.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}