The fastest way to change yourself is to hang out with the people who are already the way you want to be. If you want to get somewhere, you have to vibe there, and no better way than to put yourself in the situation with those who live it. What does vibe there mean? It means find those who are doing what you want to do and look at what they look at, be interested in what they discuss, focus on what they focus on. That “puts you in the vibe.” If for whatever reason you can’t maintain the vibration, those people and those circumstances will leave your experience. You will then find yourself among those with whom you DO vibrate in harmony, with whom you do match vibrational resonance. From that stance, you can re-evaluate and, if it’s not where you want to be, you can pivot your focus toward the better feeling place and begin moving there. If you find yourself gaining ground, and then losing it, over and over, that’s simply a focus and feeling issue, and you can practice those doing daily creative visualization exercises.