I had a session with a friend who just learned everything her mate told had been fabricated. When she confronted him and asked why, she got more lies.   Been there –> done that!    It’s never too late to tell the truth. It takes courage, humility and connection to Source. Until you can own up to what you’ve done, you’re jeopardizing everything you have now. A conscious partner honors their mate by coming clean, no matter how icky and sticky the past was.  I watched a few episodes of Catfish, where Nev Schulman and Max investigate when someone thinks they’re online with a romantic partner who may not be who they say they are.  Occasionally, as with Kendra, the trickster agrees to meet and comes clean about why they did it.   Continue reading →

Anytime we hold a thought of helping a friend, of sending them some positive energy to help them accomplish what they want, just the knowing that someone else cares enough to do that for us can be outrageously empowering. Never deprive someone of hope, it may be all they have.

What if today turned out to be the best day ever? What if all the best possible things happened to you today?  What if you found lucky coincidences everywhere, what if you discovered you have more dollars than you thought you had, what if the kids and coworkers behaved all day, what if you got a raise, what if you found the love of your life, what if a stranger bought you a new car, what if all your aches and pains were healed, what if you found your niche in life and what if by the end of the day you realized everything had meaning and purpose and everything was going along fine, just as it is? What if you woke up today with only the things you were thankful for yesterday?

Just had a conversation with a friend over a misunderstanding. We have two different recollections and she’s concerned she was perceived unfairly. My experience was that I told her something in confidence and within minutes someone else was talking about it. She was the only one I told. She accused me of calling her a liar.  I responded I was just telling her what I experienced. She got a little condescending “I thought you were psychic, you should know when someone is telling you the truth.” Anytime something triggers us, it shows where we have emotional work to do. If I had a thought like “why would Source allow me to be treated unfairly or seen as a liar when I’m not?” I’d ask to be shown what I need to know, what I need to do, what my part is in attracting it and how to move beyond it.

Just had an interesting reading on a universal topic. Your partner can love you even if they have stopped participating and responding as they used to. Do not expect them to be your best friend and your lover and your advisor and your cheerleader and your rescuer and your income and your entertainment. Do not think you have to text them with every move you make and every thought you have. Put that energy into cultivating your own interests. Rather than pouting that your partner doesn’t go to the gym, find a workout partner. If you’re the night owl and they go to bed at sunset, find someone to hoot and howl the night away. Let them love you in their own way. If you find that is not enough for you, there’s always time to make a new decision. Most importantly, don’t risk losing your best friend just because they’ve stopped being your lover.

To everyone who thinks I seem abrupt when I ask a yes or no question and you pussyfoot around instead of answering it; When I talk to a dozen people a day gathering info in order to get goals accomplished and you’re not answering me so I may do that, nothing personal but I’m moving on to someone who can give me an answer and get it done. A personal pet peeve of mine: When it comes to business and it can be accomplished with a simple yes or no, it is a waste of everyone’s time to have 3, 4, 5 conversations about it. Maybe you’re enjoying the journey of the topic but I talk to so many people a day that — for me  — it’s about getting things done.