Monthly Archives: May 2014

Today’s project was redesigning my driveway space. It’s not procrastination, it’s prepaving

seats on drivewayAnother morning of waking up with a project on my mind!  The wind and rains this week finally did in the bamboo and palmetto frond wall I’d woven to line my driveway.  I knocked it down yesterday and awoke this morning ready to redo that space. I salvaged the bamboo poles that were still good and took the rest to the street. I’d let the grass and ivy grow over the edges of the driveway, so I took my shovel and edged it all.  I got the rake and raked everything off the driveway and into the east yard.  Taking down the wall opened a view from the street into the east garden, so I fashioned a quick stand of cut bamboo for privacy. I created a new seating area across from it. It’s an entirety new look. Continue reading

Block them to give them privacy to work their stuff out

Domino wrote about being granted “painful freedom” after being blocked by someone on Facebook.  Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is block. I spent years trying not to trigger drama queens before I exercised my power. Friends don’t make friends walk on eggshells, period. The blocking is a holy sacred act to give them privacy to work their stuff out.  Domino said “(Blocking) can be an act of emotional violence.” It can also be in defense of emotional violence.”  My criteria is usually if it’s repetitively unkind, untrue and with agenda to change public perception, or a public display that differs from what goes on behind the scenes. Count me out. Block me, please.

I clear and organize my garage!

I did a massive cleaning/clearing project last week!  It was motivated by a couple of feng shui questions. I’d wondered if I needed a remedy for the iron security bars on my windows and sliding glass doors.  (Yeah, I’m from Miami.)  I learned the remedy is what I’d already done: soften the inside with window treatments, and the outside with bird feeders and tall plants that move in the wind.  I also wondered how might I lay out my feng shui bagua if I have an integral garage? I have a built in two car garage, so it is in the No. 6 Helpful friends, Travel and Guides sector. I read that entering through a messy utility space “can lead to issues such as always putting other people’s needs before your own.” I had an awakening in that moment. I went out to the garage, which I’d last cleaned in 2011. I could get to everything, but it was in much disarray.  I’d slowly let it become a real mess, and I walked past my garbage bins, pest control, tools every time I came in the house.  Enough! I moved the car out and took photos of the garage, my “before” photos. The next morning, I began moving everything out of the garage and onto the driveway. That’s the fastest way for me to organize — clear and clean the room, then decide what goes back in there.
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My ceiling fan works again as the energy gets freed up

It went by in a whirlwind, but I’ve definitely been in the flow the last two days. I delivered the May magazine to Cassadaga and Melbourne and had a dozen appointments and errands.  Everywhere I went, it was like clockwork. At Home Depot, I bought a new ceiling  fan since mine stopped working last week, and I also purchased a new shower arm and head.  (Mine had a leak and –> I wrote about it here.) I went home and was surprised it took only a few minutes to replace the shower fixture.  I cleaned up the broken passenger side mirror of my Prius. In just one morning, I attended to a half dozen projects I’d not made time for in months! After watching YouTube videos on replacing the ceiling fan, I scheduled a pal to replace it. The bf kept saying “maybe it’s a connection.” He yanked the pull cord several times quickly tonight — “See?” I said, “I told ya it wasn’t working.”  I told him I was going to open the new fan box and put the blades together. He told me to not open the box yet. He’s very psychic. An hour later I walked into the bedroom and the fan is going!  I know the reason the fan began working again is that I’d cleaned up the stagnant energy around the home repairs.   I’ve had a hole in my shower wall for a month.  It’s been easy to ignore as I shower in the guest bath. The car mirror has needed replacing for over a year.  It’s easy to ignore since I don’t see the duct tape patch when I’m in the car. That’s how I ease into stagnation. Taking my repair list and simply beginning the repairs freed up the energy, and everything began flowing better. And my ceiling fan began working on its own!